Even married couples should have boundaries and we should always respect their personal space. However, some people are just testing these boundaries.
Recently, a Twitter user @syaazaazainal shared how a man approached her and asked if it was true that she is married. The man said she is so pretty that she did not look she’s married.
Syaza responded by saying, “My husband is asking, what does a married person look like?”
Kacau isteri orang lepas tu ada hati nak bagi lecture 🤣 some malay men i tell you pic.twitter.com/DCF2QVkTPQ— Raja Syaza (@syaazaazainal) March 20, 2022
However, the man gave an absurd response: “A married person shuts down social media, stays indoors, is always covered when outside. Old school. Otherwise, men like me will get confused.”
Following that, he apologised for asking and asked Syaza to send his regards to her husband.
He literally asked whether it’s true that I’m married. It means that he already knew. Sengaja mengada nak cuba try, tapi kena reject. Isnt that obviousb— Raja Syaza (@syaazaazainal) March 21, 2022
Netizens were amused of how the man thought Syaza didn’t look like a married person. Some asked if a married person cannot look presentable or nice.
Meanwhile, some netizens were surprised as to how a person can be so conservative, as it he is living in the 80s or 90s.
“It’s now 2022 and women can’t enjoy life when they’re married? Hope my future husband will not be like him.” a netizen commented.
Dia ni hidup zaman 80an 90an ke 🤦♀️ c'mon bruhh, now 2022. Are women can't enjoy our life even dah berkahwin? Hope my future husband don't have this close-minded like him.— Fina (@AfrinaAfrisley) March 21, 2022
I don’t know but this person just showed you that he is the type who likes to control his spouse and whatever that could be worse. If I was you, I would have replied to him: “Thank God I did not marry you. Can’t even enjoy life.” another netizen shared.
A netizen then asked if married men should do the same too. “Married men should delete their social media accounts too then. Be old school, cover up and don’t go to the gym. Go to work and after that just come back and play with the kids and show attention to the wife. Don’t go and have ‘me’ time with friends at the mamak. You agree?”
Have you met anyone with such a mindset? Share your unpleasant experience in the comment section!