Trust is the most important element in a relationship and it can be easily shattered when on party in the relationship decides to cheat on the other.
Surprisingly, a Facebook user seems to think differently and said that it is something forgivable and understandable.
Just recently, a Facebook page Mingguan Wanita had shared a screenshot of an anonymous post and it has since then went viral, with many criticising the Facebook user’s opinion on cheating in marriage, and why the act should be condoned.
“If your husband wants to flirt or anything, just let it be! It’s common, sooner or later he’ll realise his mistakes. Try to compromise.” she wrote.
According to the Facebook user, it is just a matter of time for men who cheat to get tired and bored after “playing around” outside and it is important for wives to understand this.
She also explain that no matter how “playful” and disloyal your husband is, it still does not change the fact that your marriage is still valid, and this arrangement will make the cheating husband to return to you.
“His girlfriend and scandals are just his temporary companion. When he spends time with other girls, he will definitely still think of you.”
She then ended her post with an advice to wives, urging them to give their husbands some space and time to fix themselves while also being more open-minded towards this incidents.
Obviously, netizens could not agree with her and criticised her for sharing such thoughts.
“This is ignorant and we cannot normalize sinful acts. Husband or wife, there’s still a limit in socializing. We can’t let them repent by themselves because they may not have the time to do so before getting run over by a lorry.” a netizen said.
“If you’re a man, you don’t deserve to be a husband. The signs of cheating are showing. If you’re a woman, I hope you get a husband just the way you pictured. Good luck.” another netizen commented.
Do you think that you will be able to forgive your partner if they cheat on you? Share your thoughts!